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RECLAIM YOUR TIME BY OWNING YOUR REALITY If you feel like you don’t have time, the truth is this: you’re not owning your time. Your time is yours. Every second is a resource that belongs to you, and only you. Yet, in the rush of daily life, it’s easy to let others dictate your priorities, often at the expense of your own dreams and well-being. Reclaiming your time starts with reclaiming ownership of your reality. When you own your time, you stop giving others permission to misuse or abuse it. You consciously decide how to allocate your energy, which tasks and goals to focus on, and, most importantly, what to let go of. Time ownership begins with the realization that if you don’t value your time, others will spend your time on themselves. It’s about shifting from a reactive mindset to a proactive one. Instead of passively accepting what others ask of you – whether it’s work, social obligations, or endless distractions – you learn to say NO. You must become intentional about how you spend each hour, ensuring it aligns with your priorities, not someone else’s agenda. When you own your time: You set boundaries that work for you and enforce them unapologetically. You invest in activities that reflect your deepest values and desires. You recognize that saying “no” to one thing is saying “yes” to something more meaningful to your life. Owning your time isn’t just about managing your daily schedule—it’s about creating a roadmap for your life. A great way to do this is through the 4-Quarter Goal System, which breaks the year into focused, achievable phases: Ask yourself: What four tasks/goals do I want to accomplish in the next 12 months, that will have the most significant impact on my life? Think deeply and prioritize. Place the most critical goal in Q1 (the first quarter of the year), the second most important in Q2, and so on. Use the three months of each quarter to break your goal into actionable steps. Develop a timeline that includes tasks, timeline and costs. By concentrating on one major goal per quarter, you give yourself the focus and discipline to make real progress without feeling overwhelmed. Dedicate at least 90 minutes every week to planning, revising, or taking actionable steps toward your quarterly goal. Consistency is the key to momentum. It’s equally important for you to dream Big!  Enter the 10X Goal – A bold ambitious goal you’ve been putting off, one that feels just out of reach A 10X Goal isn’t necessarily something you can achieve in a single year—it’s the long-term vision that motivates you to push beyond your limits. It’s the dream you’ve talked yourself out of for far too long. Maybe it’s starting a business, writing a book, or pursuing a passion you’ve buried under excuses. This is the year to stop procrastinating. Break the inertia by taking action… Write your 10X Goal Carefully map out your vision Dedicate small blocks of time every week to creating this plan. The secret to tackling a 10X Goal isn’t doing it all at once, it’s about building momentum, step by step, over time. Once you’ve committed to your goals, it’s essential to structure your days and weeks in ways that protect your time. Here’s how: 1. Set Boundaries with Confidence Say NO (which is a complete sentence) to tasks and commitments that don’t align with your goals. You know what you want and you must hold on tight to achieve it. 2. Leverage Time-Blocking Schedule dedicated time for your goals and personal priorities. Treat these blocks as non-negotiable dates with yourself. 3. Eliminate Distractions Create focused environments for deep work, free from interruptions from anything and anyone. When you own your time, you reclaim your power. You create space for what truly matters: your dreams, your passions, your relationships, and your well-being. It’s about freeing yourself from the weight of obligations that no longer serve you. This is the year to stop talking yourself out of your potential. It’s time to act, to plan, to own every hour and every day. Start small. Stay consistent. Remember: every step you take to reclaim your time is a step toward living the life you were born to live. Time is yours. Stop giving it away. Start owning it. Your future isn’t shaped by chance—it’s created by the decisions you make today. Define your goals, focus your energy, and take action. And always be reminded of my mantra “what you do today, forms your tomorrow” Let me walk beside you, guide you, and help you reclaim the time, freedom, and purpose you deserve. I am Rita…speaking to your Spirit Contact me! Let me know your thoughts on this blog. Spiritual + Business Coach | Rita Ricks Reclaiming Your Time – 3-Part Web Series Imagine owning your time—no longer giving others permission to misuse or abuse it. When you consciously decide where your energy goes, you create space for what truly matters: focusing on the right tasks, achieving your goals, and letting go of what no longer serves you. Join me for a transformative 3-part series starting this January. Let me guide you step-by-step to manifest your dream life, even in the midst of your already over-stressed schedule. When & Where? February 10, 17, 24, 2025 at 7:00 PM BONUS!!! Accountability Call: March 10th at 7:00 PM What You’ll Learn: Week 1: Identify the barriers and distractions holding you back. Define your boundaries with clarity and finally remove them from living rent free in your head. Week 2: Align your goals with actionable steps that fit seamlessly into your life. Week 3: Discover your BOLD, BODACIOUS 10x Idea—the game-changer that propels you forward. Your Investment: All 3 sessions plus the bonus accountability call for only $250. Because YES, you are worth it. This is your moment to take charge, create meaningful progress, and step into the life you deserve. Secure your spot now and start owning your time like never before! Register Now

Feminine Energy: Your Secret Superpower Feminine energy is a powerful yet understated force—the kind that nurtures, inspires, and transforms. It’s the essence of creativity and connection, offering a balance that the world desperately needs. Once overlooked, it’s now being recognized as a source of true strength and resilience. The Journey of Feminine EnergyFeminine energy has always been a powerhouse, but let’s be real—it’s had a serious PR problem. For centuries, traits like empathy and collaboration were labeled as weak. Then came the “boss babe” era, where we were told to hustle harder, louder, and tougher to keep up.Thankfully, things are finally making a significant and noticeable shift. Feminine energy is reclaiming its rightful place, showing us that you can be both soft and strong, empathetic and assertive. Spoiler: this balance? It’s the ultimate power move. Why Feminine Energy Is Everything Emotional Intelligence- Feminine energy excels at reading the room. Whether it’s calming a toddler’s meltdown or guiding a team through chaos, emotional intelligence is the unshakeable superpower that saves the day (and your sanity). Adaptability- Feminine energy knows how to pivot gracefully. Life throws lemons? We’re making lemonade and a DIY astringent. Compassionate Leadership- best leaders don’t just issue commands—they inspire trust, collaboration, and empowerment. Feminine energy fosters inclusive spaces where everyone can thrive. Intuition- Intuition isn’t woo-woo; it’s your inner GPS. Trust it—it’s usually spot-on. Feminine energy brings discernment and guidance that can’t be taught, only felt. The Modern ChallengeHustle culture? Total vibe killer. Women today are juggling careers, family, and about a thousand expectations. In the chaos, feminine energy often gets put on the back burner. Society glorifies 12-hour workdays but doesn’t exactly cheer for 12-hour self-care marathons (which, let’s be honest, we all deserve).Representation also matters. For women of color, stepping into their full feminine power often means navigating stereotypes and systemic challenges. But every step forward makes the path wider for those following. How to Tap Into Your Feminine EnergyReady to embrace your superpower? Start here: Slow Down: Give yourself permission to rest. Even Beyoncé sits down sometimes. Find Your Tribe: Surround yourself with people who lift you up. If you’re looking, consider spaces like The Vault, Seekers Circle, or Listening to the Silence. Trust Your Gut: Intuition is your personal Google Maps—use it.Be Soft, But Strong: Softness isn’t weakness; it’s a secret weapon that heals and builds bridges. Why It MattersThe world doesn’t need more loud dominance—it needs balance. Feminine energy is the missing piece, offering strength in a way that benefits everyone, not just women. By tapping into this energy, we don’t just change our lives; we shift the world.

VOTE! MAKING CHOICES FOR THE HEALTH OF OUR PLANET AND PEOPLE!! As the sun rises on a new era of environmental consciousness, one undeniable truth emerges: our collective voices have the power to shape the future of our planet. With every election cycle that comes and goes, we hold in our hands not just ballots, but tools for transformation—tools that can protect fragile ecosystems, combat climate change, and promote sustainable development for generations to come. Your vote is more than just a mark on a page; it’s an affirmation of hope and responsibility.  Participating in elections empowers you to advocate for policies that safeguard the future of our great grands as well as this wonderful planet – which, right now, is on life support.  Your vote matters now more than ever. When we vote, we’re not only casting a ballot, we’re voicing our values and priorities, as visitors to this planet. Here’s my ask…List 3 values you live by and determine which political candidate aligns with those values.  I’m not talking party, gender, race, ethnicity, or sexual preference. I’m talking about the candidate you want your children and grandchildren to emulate. I’ll start… I want a leader who embodies the essence of hope and possibility, someone whose vision extends beyond today’s challenges to embrace an inclusive future where every American feels safe and valued in their pursuit of happiness. This leader will be rooted in the understanding that our strength lies in our diversity, welcoming individuals from all walks of life with open arms and an open heart. They will not merely react to circumstances but rather anticipate the needs of tomorrow by crafting comprehensive plans for sustainability, public health, and societal well-being. With maturity woven into their decision-making process, this leader will prioritize honesty and sincerity over rhetoric, communicating transparently about both aspirations and obstacles while remaining steadfastly grounded in principles that resonate with common decency. Moreover, their humility will reflect a deep respect for something greater than themselves, drawing inspiration from faith yet resonating universally across diverse beliefs; they’ll strive not just for progress but also purpose—guiding us toward a thriving community united by shared values rather than division. Political decisions shape our lives in profound ways. They influence our economy, education, and health care system, to name a few.  Those decisions are made by people we put in office.  These people ARE the Government – the Government we hire them to run. It’s why we must know the people we’re voting for…who they are as human beings.  You have to interview them, because you’re going to employ them. The people WE put into office, will determine how efficient the response is to crises like natural disasters or public health emergencies. Our vote holds power over legislation concerning education funding or healthcare access. making voting not just a right but a responsibility we cannot afford to ignore.  Education and healthcare are critical to our wellbeing and must not be put in the hands of anyone unable to think beyond his/her own self interest. When you choose not to vote, you give up your power as a human being. Policies are shaped by those who show up on Election Day. A missed opportunity can result in laws that don’t reflect our needs or priorities we care about most. Every time we cast a vote, we’re shaping the world our children and grandchildren will inherit. Policies on climate change, education, and healthcare are influenced by who holds political power.  This election will determine regulations that will either protect us from, or allow, harmful practices to thrive.  Every vote carries weight. When it comes to protecting our planet, voting is not just a right; it’s a responsibility.  Engagement matters now more than ever. Whether it’s local measures or national elections, each choice reflects our values regarding health and sustainability for both people and nature alike. I hope my words inspire you to take part in this vital endeavor, for it is through our collective effort that we safeguard hope—not only for ourselves but for generations yet to come.  And please share with others.    Let me hear your thoughts. I am Rita…speaking to your Spirit Contact me to discuss the sadness you’re feeling – Let me know if you have other coping skills to share. Let me know your thoughts on this blog. Contact | Spiritual Coach + Business Coach | Rita Ricks

Embracing Feminine Energy In recent chats with my girlfriends and clients, I’ve noticed something beautiful happening—more and more women are opening up about the desire to reconnect with their “feminine energy.” In 2024, femininity is evolving, and while it can sometimes feel like we’ve drifted from our natural power, there’s an exciting movement stirring within us all. We’re ready to redefine what it means to be a woman, beyond just being “strong.” (Go ahead and put your muscles away for this read, ladies—we’ll flex them later!) For so long, we’ve proudly worn the “strong woman” title. And trust me, we’ve earned it! We’ve conquered challenges in the White House, at home, in relationships, and within ourselves. But here’s the thing—strength doesn’t have to come at the expense of softness. We’re ready to step into our “soft girl, gorgeous woman” era—an era where we fully embrace femininity in all its forms, without constantly feeling the pressure to be tough. This isn’t about choosing softness over strength. It’s about knowing that softness *is* strength. Feminine energy is nurturing, creative, and flows with grace. It’s reconnecting with the beauty that lives within us, tapping into our creativity, and embracing the peace, rest, and joy we deserve. Personally, I’ve been on strike from the “strong woman” label this year—how about you? We all crave balance. It’s time to reclaim our divine feminine energy, the energy that lets us thrive in every area of life with ease, grace, and, yes, softness. This shift is long overdue! Now is the perfect moment to fully embrace the power of our femininity—whether that’s through self-care, slowing down, or simply allowing ourselves to be seen in our true, radiant beauty. Let’s release the pressure to always be “strong” and instead nurture the woman we *want* to be. We deserve to feel soft, gorgeous, and empowered in our own skin. And don’t forget, there’s *so much fun* in embracing our softness! There’s something magical about applying a cute lip gloss, trying a new hairstyle, or wearing that outfit that makes you feel like a million bucks. It’s in those little moments—when you catch your reflection in the mirror, smile, and maybe even wink at yourself—that you’re reminded of your own beauty and power. That light, playful energy is what makes feminine energy so special. It’s about savoring the things that make you feel radiant and confident, just for *you*. If this resonates with you, I’d love for you to join me on November 16th at 7 pm at The Brown House Candle Company for Unleash Your Feminine Power: From Inner Beauty to Bold Expression—a feminine energy packed workshop. We’ll dive deep into what it means to embrace your feminine energy and create personalized lipsticks as a symbol of bringing your inner beauty to the surface. This is your chance to step fully into your feminine power, connect with a community of amazing women, and leave feeling more aligned with the gorgeous woman you are. You don’t want to miss this! See you there.

From Grief to Growth: Discovering the Value Hidden Within Your Sadness In a world that often encourages us to mask our pain with positivity, it’s easy to overlook the profound lessons that lie within our sadness. Grief can feel like an uninvited shadow, settling heavily on our hearts and minds, but what if buried beneath those layers of sorrow is a treasure trove of growth waiting to be unveiled? In this journey through emotions, where heartache meets healing, I want to show how acknowledging and embracing your grief can transform it into one of life’s most powerful catalysts for personal evolution. Even in the darkest times, there exists a path toward resilience, understanding, and ultimately, empowerment. Walk with me… Sadness is a universal experience. It creeps into our lives unexpectedly, often leaving us feeling isolated and overwhelmed. Whether it’s the loss of a loved one, the end of a relationship, or even just a bad day, sadness can take many forms. We all encounter it at some point, myself included.  It’s woven into the fabric of being human. Physically, repressed emotions may manifest through tension headaches, digestive issues, anxiety, stress or fatigue. These symptoms are merely the body’s way of signaling distress from unresolved sorrow. Socially, withdrawing from others becomes common when we mask our sadness. We might miss out on valuable connections and support systems during tough times. Ultimately, by shunning these feelings, we risk becoming trapped in a cycle of emotional stagnation. But what if we looked at sadness through a different lens? Instead of seeing it solely as an emotion to avoid or suppress, what if we recognized its potential for growth and transformation? The journey from grief to personal development may seem daunting, but within each moment of sorrow lies invaluable lessons waiting to be uncovered. One powerful coping method is journaling. Writing down thoughts and feelings allows for a deeper understanding of what’s living rent free in our head. We often spend our time doing something/anything to avoid managing the sadness and grief. But this just delays the inevitable. Journaling is about recording your thoughts…whatever is in your head. My journaling is my Dear God letter. I turn it over to Him. You can share your deepest feelings with whomever. Just get those thoughts out of your head onto paper. Another effective approach is physical activity. Engaging in exercise releases endorphins, which can lift your spirits and reduce stress levels. Even a short walk can make a difference. Sweating is a good thing! Exercise/moving is critical to your overall wellness. Deep breathing while Being SILENT helps ground you. Being SILENT…no movement, no electronics, wear an eye mask, relax, eyes closed, dream. The solution is in the Silence. I sit in the dark, so I have no distractions, wrapped in my favorite blanket. You can do this. It is critical to your overall wellness. Connecting with others can also be beneficial. Sharing your feelings in a support group fosters connection and reminds you that you’re not alone in this journey. Sadness can be a profound teacher. It tends to reveal what truly matters in life or highlight areas where change is needed. Recognizing the value of sorrow doesn’t mean dismissing how you feel; it’s about honoring those feelings while searching for growth opportunities they present.  We stop viewing sadness solely as an enemy and begin to understand its role in shaping resilience and the depth of our character. Each moment spent in sorrow can unveil lessons about resilience, empathy, and strength. By confronting rather than avoiding these feelings, we pave the way for growth. Grief and sadness often walk together, but it’s important to hold on to the good times. They are a part of who you are today. No regrets—just the cherished memories that bring a smile to your heart. I am Rita…speaking to your Spirit Contact me to discuss the sadness you’re feeling – Let me know if you have other coping skills to share. Let me know your thoughts on this blog. Contact | Spiritual Coach + Business Coach | Rita Ricks