RECLAIM YOUR TIME BY OWNING YOUR REALITY

By Rita Ricks

RECLAIM YOUR TIME BY OWNING YOUR REALITY If you feel like you don’t have time, the truth is this: you’re not owning your time. Your time is yours. Every second is a resource that belongs to you, and only you. Yet, in the rush of daily life, it’s easy to let others dictate your priorities, often at the expense of your own dreams and well-being. Reclaiming your time starts with reclaiming ownership of your reality. When you own your time, you stop giving others permission to misuse or abuse it. You consciously decide how to allocate your energy, which tasks and goals to focus on, and, most importantly, what to let go of. Time ownership begins with the realization that if you don’t value your time, others will spend your time on themselves. It’s about shifting from a reactive mindset to a proactive one. Instead of passively accepting what others ask of you – whether it’s work, social obligations, or endless distractions – you learn to say NO. You must become intentional about how you spend each hour, ensuring it aligns with your priorities, not someone else’s agenda. When you own your time: You set boundaries that work for you and enforce them unapologetically. You invest in activities that reflect your deepest values and desires. You recognize that saying “no” to one thing is saying “yes” to something more meaningful to your life. Owning your time isn’t just about managing your daily schedule—it’s about creating a roadmap for your life. A great way to do this is through the 4-Quarter Goal System, which breaks the year into focused, achievable phases: Ask yourself: What four tasks/goals do I want to accomplish in the next 12 months, that will have the most significant impact on my life? Think deeply and prioritize. Place the most critical goal in Q1 (the first quarter of the year), the second most important in Q2, and so on. Use the three months of each quarter to break your goal into actionable steps. Develop a timeline that includes tasks, timeline and costs. By concentrating on one major goal per quarter, you give yourself the focus and discipline to make real progress without feeling overwhelmed. Dedicate at least 90 minutes every week to planning, revising, or taking actionable steps toward your quarterly goal. Consistency is the key to momentum.   It’s equally important for you to dream Big!  Enter the 10X Goal – A bold ambitious goal you’ve been putting off, one that feels just out of reach A 10X Goal isn’t necessarily something you can achieve in a single year—it’s the long-term vision that motivates you to push beyond your limits. It’s the dream you’ve talked yourself out of for far too long. Maybe it’s starting a business, writing a book, or pursuing a passion you’ve buried under excuses. This is the year to stop procrastinating. Break the inertia by taking action… Write your 10X Goal Carefully map out your vision Dedicate small blocks of time every week to creating this plan. The secret to tackling a 10X Goal isn’t doing it all at once, it’s about building momentum, step by step, over time. Once you’ve committed to your goals, it’s essential to structure your days and weeks in ways that protect your time. Here’s how: 1. Set Boundaries with Confidence Say NO(which is a complete sentence)to tasks and commitments that don’t align with your goals. You know what you want and you must hold on tight to achieve it. 2. Leverage Time-Blocking Schedule dedicated time for your goals and personal priorities. Treat these blocks as non-negotiable dates with yourself. 3. Eliminate Distractions Create focused environments for deep work, free from interruptions from anything and anyone. When you own your time, you reclaim your power. You create space for what truly matters: your dreams, your passions, your relationships, and your well-being. It’s about freeing yourself from the weight of obligations that no longer serve you. This is the year to stop talking yourself out of your potential. It’s time to act, to plan, to own every hour and every day. Start small. Stay consistent. Remember: every step you take to reclaim your time is a step toward living the life you were born to live. Time is yours. Stop giving it away. Start owning it. Your future isn’t shaped by chance—it’s created by the decisions you make today. Define your goals, focus your energy, and take action. And always be reminded of my mantra “what you do today, forms your tomorrow” Let me walk beside you, guide you, and help you reclaim the time, freedom, and purpose you deserve. I am Rita…speaking to your Spirit Contact me! Let me know your thoughts on this blog. Spiritual + Business Coach | Rita Ricks